I'm afraid of the procedure

 

If you are considering having an abortion, the first fear that probably runs through your mind is the fear of actually having the procedure. Any time a person is faced with a medical procedure, there is always some apprehension, and with abortion, this apprehension is magnified because of the different information you are given based on who you speak to. Some will no doubt tell you that it's a simple medical procedure, and others will tell you of all sorts of risks and complications, making you feel that you'll have a lot of problems. As usual, the truth lies somewhere in between the extremes.

 

Your first step is to learn about the procedure. Do some research on your own before speaking to the doctor. Choice to Live With has a list of abortion procedures for you to explore. The explanations are very extensive, so you won't need to search far and wide for the facts. Look carefully at the "What Should I Consider?" section of each procedure as well as the "What are the Risks?" section. These details should give you a feel for which procedure seems best for you. Write down any questions you may have as you think of them so that you'll be prepared for your appointment.

 

Next, screen the abortion clinics in your area. You want to pay close attention to:

• Do you feel you are being rushed into making a decision.
• Is the provider licensed by your state.
• Does the clinic have a relationship with a nearby hospital?  
• Are they up-front with costs?
• If you visit the clinic, is the waiting room packed?

You need to take steps to be sure you are safe, and the best person to look out for you is you! Once you've selected a clinic, you'll have a consultation appointment where they give you some tests and speak to you about the procedure. Now is the time for you to ask all of the questions that you previously wrote down. Not only is it important to get the answers to your questions, but this will also tell you something about the staff that works at the clinic you selected. They should spend time talking with you about your concerns. If they do not, consider looking for another clinic.

 

Lastly, you need to have someone to talk to about the procedure - before, during, and after. Try to brainstorm a list of people whom you could confide in. If you know anyone who has had an abortion, you should talk to them about their experience. Most post-abortive women are willing to share their story with someone who is contemplating the same choice. For starters, email Choice to Live With to talk with a volunteer who understands your unique concerns. 

 

In summary, learn, learn, and learn some more about the procedure you will be having, and then find yourself a friend (or friends) who you can trust to care about you throughout your procedure!